Trusted care for the moments that matter
For founders, CEOs and high-performing families whose calendars don't wait. A board dinner, a gala, a wedding or a last-minute trip: rigorously vetted, development-based Totters, so you can be fully present knowing your children are in expert hands.
- 6-step vetting before anyone meets you
- CPR and pediatric first aid certified
- From USD 20 an hour, 4-hour minimum
- Discreet, NDA-level confidentiality
More than 100 occasional services a year, many for families who call us again.
For families who expect excellence, even for a few hours
You've built a life where the details matter. Successful founders, CEOs and executive families choose Totters because we understand what you prioritize: privacy, reliability and people who meet your standards. You'll feel at home with us if you…
Have a gala, board dinner or wedding
And need to be fully present, without checking your phone every ten minutes.
Travel, relocate or live between cities
Anywhere in Mexico, for a season or a weekend, without a trusted village nearby.
Value your time above everything
No interviews, no trial and error. One message and a vetted Totter is handled for you.
Want engagement, not just a sitter
Development-based activities for your child's stage, even for an afternoon. Teams of Totters for events and big families.
Protect your family's privacy
Signed confidentiality, no photos without permission and total discretion about your home, guests and routine.
Hold everyone to a high standard
Including the person caring for your children. Emotionally aware, professional, and backed by a team.
You don't compromise on the people around your family. Neither do we.
Hiring on your own is a gamble
Breach of trust is, by definition, committed by someone who already had access to the home. A good reference and a friendly interview aren't enough.
reports of breach of trust in Mexico, 31,000 in the last twelve months.
SESNSP, 2024–2026of crimes are never investigated. A clean record doesn't prove nothing happened.
INEGI, ENVIPE 2025of job seekers lie on their CV. Years of experience get invented too.
Midot annual workplace integrity report
She came recommended. Great interview. High risk for violence.
In a calm conversation almost any candidate looks good. Our assessment puts candidates under pressure and conflict, and that's where what the interview didn't show comes out. These are real results (candidate data removed), and why none of them reached a family.
Trust is built on verified information. That's exactly what we do for you.
Grow strong from the start, instead of healing later
"When we truly see children for who they are, not who we want them to be, and give them space to grow without imposing adult expectations, they develop stronger emotional foundations for life."
"So many adults spend years trying to heal what they didn't receive early on. I started Totters to help create a different path: children growing up with supportive systems, emotionally aware adults and environments that let them thrive from the beginning."
Book your Totter in 4 simple steps
Tell us your plans
Date, hours, address and how many children, with their ages.
On WhatsAppYour Family Profile
Routines, allergies, emergency contacts and what calms your child, in one document.
About 10 minutesMeet your Totter
We introduce the Totter (or team) assigned to your family, with her intro video.
Before the dayEnjoy your plans
She arrives on time, uniform on, with your Family Profile read and activities ready.
We stay closeTwo ways to your perfect match
It all starts with your family's assessment. Based on what your children need, your Totter comes from one of two paths.
Ready-to-go match
If the Totter your family needs is already part of our team, we introduce her right away. She has passed all 6 filters and knows how we work.
Tailor-made recruitment
If your needs go beyond our current team, or our Totters are all already matched with other families, we launch a search designed around your family: the profile, languages and experience you need. Every candidate goes through the same 6 filters and all our safety guarantees.
Either way, you meet her before day one, with the same guarantees.
Discover what's behind our vetting
Every Totter passes 6 filters before she ever meets you. Tap each one to look inside.
1CV and track record
Experience, ages, references
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CV and track record
Experience, ages, references
We check every CV against the facts: where she worked, with which ages, for how long and why she left. References get a call, not a glance.
2Case-based and competency interviews
Real situations, real judgment
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Case-based and competency interviews
Real situations, real judgment
A tantrum that won't end, a fall at the park, an instruction she disagrees with. Why it matters to you:
- Shows how she thinks, not how well she interviews
- Predicts real behavior, because she walks us through what she'd actually do
- Same cases for every candidate, so we compare on evidence
- Her limits and emergency response are clear before she meets your child
3Document verification
ID, address, studies, certificates
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Document verification
ID, address, studies, certificates
Every document is confirmed as authentic. If something doesn't match, she doesn't move forward.
4Honesty, integrity and job stability
The Caregivers assessment
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Honesty, integrity and job stability
The Caregivers assessment
A specialized assessment for people who care for others. See a real report on the right →
5Criminal background check
Before she enters any home
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Criminal background check
Before she enters any home
Necessary, but never enough on its own, since 93% of crimes are never investigated. That's why it's one of six filters.
6CPR and pediatric first aid
Plus ongoing training
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CPR and pediatric first aid
Plus ongoing training
Certified in CPR, pediatric first aid and choking response, with continuous training in child development and safety.
The Caregivers assessment
200–250 adaptive questions that look at past behavior and personal views across 13 scales, each rated low, medium or high risk. It measures emotional management, attention and care, and integrity and professionalism.
Zero tolerance. Any risk sign here and she never reaches your home:
Real Totters candidate report, original in Spanish. Candidate data removed.
The warmth of a nanny, the backing of experts
Educational, development-based care. Active care, not just supervision.
Real activities with Totters families.
Say hi to some of our Totters
Every Totter records an introduction video so families can get to know her before they meet. Here are a few examples from our team.
Totter introWatch on YouTube
Totter introWatch on YouTube
Totter introWatch on YouTube
Totter introWatch on YouTube
Totter introWatch on YouTube
Today, in Mexico
"The level of care, attention to detail, and professionalism exceeded all of our expectations. Our children are always happy, and we trust them completely with the team."
"Working with Totters has been an exceptional process. Communication was clear and they explained every step. The materials, the process and the follow-up are top quality."
Two promises, so you never have to settle
Meet her before you commit
You see your Totter on video and can request a Zoom call before day one. Not feeling it? We introduce someone new, up to 3 introductions included.
The right-fit promise
Safety, quality and wellbeing in real life. If day to day it just doesn't click, we rematch you, up to 3 times at no cost.
Signed confidentiality
About your address, routine and family, during and after the service.
No photos without permission
Only with your written authorization, which you can withdraw anytime.
Backup you approve
If your Totter can't make it, we plan a replacement you've approved.
Protocols on paper
Choking, falls, fever, allergies, emergencies and who can pick up your child.
Simple hourly pricing
Every Totter is CPR certified. Choose your Totter's language:
Occasional service
For date nights, weddings, events, work commitments and one-off needs.
- Up to 2 children of similar ages per Totter
- Newborns to 13 years old
- Babies under 1 get an exclusive Totter
- Vetted through our 6 filters, CPR certified
- Development-based activities for each child's stage
- Family Profile and written emergency protocols
- Signed confidentiality
How many Totters will you need?
1 Totter × 4 hours × USD 25 (bilingual)
An estimate to help you plan. Children of very different ages may need an extra Totter; we confirm the final quote with you.
Prices exclude VAT; if you need an invoice, VAT is added.
Looking for ongoing care? Ask us about full-time and newborn programs.
Your questions, answered
How many children can one Totter care for?
- Up to 2 children of similar ages per Totter.
- For every third child, a new Totter is needed (newborn to 13 years).
- Babies under 1 year always get an exclusive Totter.
These ratios are how we guarantee real attention and safety for every child.
Is there a minimum?
Yes, every service is at least 4 hours per Totter.
What's the difference between bilingual and Spanish-speaking?
A bilingual Totter speaks English and Spanish with your children (USD 25 an hour). A Spanish-speaking Totter cares for them in Spanish (USD 20 an hour). Both go through the same 6 filters.
Can you care for children at a wedding or event?
Yes. We send a team of Totters with the right ratios and plan activities for the ages of the children attending. Share the venue details and we'll prepare the materials.
Will I know who is coming?
Yes. We introduce the Totter assigned to your family before the service, with her introduction video.
Are Totters trained for emergencies?
Every Totter is certified in CPR, pediatric first aid and choking response, and follows written protocols for falls, fever, allergies, medication and calling emergency services.
How far in advance should I book?
The earlier the better, especially for weekends, holidays and events. Message us as soon as you have a date.
Ready for a worry-free night out?
Tell us your date, hours and children, and we'll confirm your Totter.